- In Loving Memory -
Tommy Donfrio, Vocals, Drums
Long before he ever laid a stick on a snare drum, there was
the simple `tap-tap-tap` of a young boy's fingers on the wooden church pew.
Trying to add a beat to the drone of a gospel hymn played on a sleepy organ at
Sunday mass, little Tommy Donfrio annoyed churchgoers with a rhythmic
fingertip-and-knuckles mini-percussion. He didn¹t know at the time that it
would be the beginning of a life-long love affair with music.
Tom Donfrio, a.k.a Tommy Dee (after all this is rock'n'roll) got his first set
of drums at age 13. It was an old and battered Kent set that his Uncle Tony
from Rochester New York tried to sell, but after several mocking laughs and
giggles from prospective buyers, decided heroically to donate the set to his
anxious nephew.
Tommy's first band, The Rejects, played their first gig to a
throng of at least ten teenagers at a 13th birthday party. His musical career
was off and running. The band played many local parties, backyard barbeques and
soon thereafter even got to play on a local TV show. "Engineer Bill's Shake
Shop."
The `Rejects` eventually lived up to their name and Tommy moved on. The
bubble-gum got even stickier when he and current Cheap Sax keyboard player Rick
Avenatti hooked up with an all-girl band called The Jaggz. They hopscotched
around town performing at teen center dances, USO shows, and Battle of the Bands
Spectaculars. It was during this period that Tommy developed sensitivity. In
other words, he always let the girls have their way. He also discovered that a
wonderful by-product of playing rock and roll was having a lot of girls around.
If the music wasn't up to his expectations, he could always take comfort in the
environment. Even so, when his friends began to refer to the group as "The
Powderpuffs," Tommy knew it was time to exit.
It was on to Montebello High School where Tommy had the good fortune to back up
rock'n'roll legends The Coasters and The Drifters. Tommy's excitement was hard
to contain, but his overuse of the word "groovy" wasn't conducive to
R&B and soon again he found himself to be a drummer without a gig, until
1971, when Tommy co-founded the country-rock band Pequod. That same year they
recorded their first album and promoted it by playing local clubs and a cable TV
show.
There was a virtual drought in the L.A. music scene in 1973 when Tommy latched
on to a Japanese Pop Rock band called Free Flight. Tommy's best memory of this
band was that for the first in his life he felt tall. In 1976 Tommy was once
again reunited with Rick Avenatti and current Cheap Sax guitarist, Doug MacColl
in a group called Higher Ground. The band's biggest claim to fame was a
four month stay in Hawaii. Oahu clubs and military bases were the band's bread
and butter for their tour. Unfortunately the group was saddled with a rowdy
reputation by Military Police (MP's) during their stay. It seemed whenever they
played a base, the brig was filled by morning. Go figure.
By 1980 there was a New Wave of music washing over LA, and Tommy's creative
juices were flowing. He and Doug left Higher Ground, and along with current sax
player, Gary Pluchino, formed The Rev, one of the hottest (and best-kept)
secrets on the LA music scene. Perhaps due to an excess of testosterone,
the group evolved into The Balding Brothers, and they enjoyed six years of
playing local clubs and opening for acts like The Del Tones, Billy and the
Beaters and Al Kooper. It was during this time that Tommy met Jeff Cool, current
lead vocalist for Cheap Sax. In 1990 Cheap Sax was born and has endured and
flourished to the present day.
Tommy is married to his number one fan, Amy. To their own bewilderment
and amazement they have raised a lovely daughter, Lindsey, who's pent-up anger
and hostility has manifested itself in creative musical talents of her own.
Along with Jeff's and Gary's daughters, Lindsey will often front the band singing
a lovely ballad or noteworthy rock and roll classic.
When he's not pounding out great sounds from his
vintage 1969 Ludwig psychedelic red drum set or his Roland electronic drums,
Tommy Dee will Jekyll and Hyde himself into Mr. Donfrio, the Director of HR for
Montebello Schools. Tommy has been mentoring kids for most of his
adult life. So if you're having trouble with your kid's test-scores, see the
drummer.
Tommy's musical resume is long, but not as long as his musical
memory. If you were to ask him about his favorite moments performing, he would
list a host of unforgettable snapshots in time, and somewhere near the top of
that list would be the simple "tap-tap-tap" of a little boy in church
trying to create a better beat for all of us.
Tommy left us on March 24, 2009 and will be missed forever by all of us.
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